Chasing girls is an exciting and nervous thing, but many boys don’t dare to express their feelings because they are afraid of being rejected. However, if you don't express your feelings, you will never be sure of your relationship. Let’s explore why you can’t confess your feelings and how to establish a relationship.
1. Why can’t you confess your feelings?
Many boys will have this idea: if I don’t confess, there is at least a little hope; if I confess and am rejected, then there is really no hope. But this idea is actually wrong.
First of all, if you never express your love, girls may misunderstand that you are just an ordinary friend or have no interest at all. In this case, even if she likes you, she will not take the initiative to express love. Secondly, if you don't express your love for a long time, the girl may think that you are just flirting or have no interest in her at all. Finally, if you never express your love, girls may think that you lack courage and self-confidence, which is also a fatal injury to long-term relationship development.
2. How to determine the relationship?
Establishing a relationship is the ultimate goal of chasing a girl, but how to establish a relationship? The following points can help you.
2.1 Clarify your feelings
Before confirming the relationship, you must first clarify your feelings for the girl. If you just want to have fun or look for short-term excitement, then don't waste a girl's time and feelings. If you really like her and are willing to pay for her, then express it firmly.
2.2 Communicate with girls
Before confirming the relationship, you need to have full communication with girls. This includes understanding her hobbies, family background, career plans, etc. Through communication, we can better understand each other and build a foundation of trust and mutual understanding.
2.3 Confession
Confession is an important step in establishing a relationship. After you have made your feelings clear and have fully communicated with the girl, you can consider confessing. Be honest, direct, concise and clear when expressing your feelings; do not be vague or beat around the bush.
2.4 Confirm the relationship
When a girl accepts your confession and expresses her willingness to establish a relationship with you, the relationship can be confirmed. After confirming the relationship, you need to continue to maintain good communication and mutual understanding to manage the relationship together.
Summary
Chasing girls is not an easy task, but if you don’t express your love, you will never be able to determine the relationship between you. In order to confirm a relationship, you need to clarify your feelings, fully communicate with the girl, express your feelings directly and honestly, and confirm the relationship. Only through these steps can a true emotional foundation be built.
