What a girl values ??most when looking for a boyfriend is actually a boy’s character. Whether the boy’s three views are consistent with her own. She will judge whether a boy is trustworthy based on his words and actions. Therefore, when a boy comes into contact with a girl, Just be careful and try to leave a good impression on girls. The following mainly analyzes how to chat with girls with upright views?
1. Understand the three views of girls
In fact, the most feared thing in a relationship is the incompatibility of the three views. You may not notice it when you first get in touch. After being together for a long time, the contact will deepen. Only after I did this did I realize that there would be a lot of contradictions if this was the case. So try to understand more about girls’ perspectives when you first come into contact with them.
For example, ask a girl how she views some social phenomena and see what she says. However, boys should also be careful not to just listen, but to carefully observe whether she really thinks so, because once At first, a girl may want to leave a good impression on a boy and say something nice, so it depends on how she does it.
2. When encountering differences, we need to work together
In fact, issues such as three views are not just discussed. If you want to chat with a girl with a positive outlook, you still need to observe more in daily interactions. When you encounter problems, pay attention to analyze where your differences are with the girl to see if you can get along. One more thing to mention here is not to listen to what a girl says, but to see what she does when things happen. This principle applies to both men and women.
If you encounter some points where you can give in, then just agree with what the girl says. There is no need to make trouble over some innocuous little things. For example, if you choose to watch a movie, a girl wants to watch a romantic movie, but you want to watch an action movie; if you choose to eat, if a girl likes spicy food, but you like light food, then just order a Yuanyang Hotpot as a compromise.
But if you encounter a problem with the bottom line of the three views principle and you have a disagreement with a girl, you need to stick to yourself at this time Once you compromise once, you will need to compromise countless times in the future. You may choose to compromise because you like her at the beginning. As time goes by, you will become impatient and relationships will easily have problems.
In addition, if you meet a girl with very upright views, she will actually be very good at chatting with you. Just chat according to her preferences. It's best to be humorous so that people don't annoy you. After all, by asking this question, you must be trying to build a relationship with this girl. If you meet a girl with incorrect views, there is no need to compromise yourself in order to cater to her incorrect views. Sometimes you must stick to what you should stick to.
