Many boys can chat and laugh happily, but when it comes to chatting with girls they like, they become nervous. Either they can’t find the topic while chatting, or they talk about some topics that girls are not interested in, and they are not allowed to chat at all. generate interaction. So how can we have a better interaction with the girl we like?
1. Be good at expressing your feelings
When chatting with a girl you like, many boys like to focus the chat on the other person. No matter what the topic is, it always revolves around the other person. When the girl responds, she will only cater to the other person and turn the conversation into something else. The initiative is put in the hands of girls. It is difficult for girls to be interested in such a chat.
Therefore, if you want to have a good interaction when chatting with the girl you like, you must be good at expressing your status and feelings to her, and establish an effective connection with the other party by sharing your status. , for example:
"I just ate a jelly, it reminds me of your cute little face"
Tell the girl what you are doing, and at the same time, establish a certain relationship with the girl. contact, and add words of praise to girls to create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, which can better arouse girls' emotions in wanting to chat.
“I just came out of the gym and it feels so comfortable to sweat.”
The way of sharing one’s own feelings is a very suitable way to start, and it can convey one’s self to girls very well. His value information is that he loves sports and is an energetic and healthy boy, which invisibly refreshes his favorability in the minds of girls.
2. Reasonable use of emotions
Making girls happy is indeed a way to gain their favor, but If you just make girls laugh and don't use such emotions to interact and tease, then everything you do will be in vain.
Therefore, when we make a girl happy, we must grasp her emotions and use them appropriately, such as:
Chat content: This fruit doesn’t seem very fresh
Most people replied: Nowadays, they are grown in greenhouses. It is very difficult to eat original fresh strawberries
It is a common problem for many boys to tell girls in a preaching and explaining tone. , a typical straight man’s logical thinking. Such an answer is too logical, and it is difficult to arouse the girl’s emotions, and the result will only be the end of the topic.
Some people’s replies: You didn’t buy this yourself, you have to eat it despite the pain.
I feel very humorous, but I am wrong about my wits. This will only make people laugh. A girl feels that you are questioning and accusing her, which can easily give girls negative emotional feedback, and is the most annoying thing for girls.
Advanced reply: Then don’t eat it, I’ll take care of it.I won’t leave any for you, I’ll buy you more delicious ones when you behave well
Deliberately stimulate the girl’s emotions, eat all the fruits yourself, and leave none for the girl, such a reply After girls hear this, they will definitely be dissatisfied and their emotions will fluctuate. When the dispute creates an atmosphere of flirting, the relationship will become closer invisibly.
3. Dare to make your own demands
People are eager to challenge, so they often have Challenging things attract us more. But when chatting with girls they like, many boys will only cater to them without thinking, making themselves less challenging in front of girls. As a result, the attitude of girls becomes cold while chatting with them.
So I started to wonder whether to show off. In fact, many times when a girl is cold to you during chat, it is also a test to see if you can persist.
If we blindly compromise and tolerate, it will be difficult to pass the test, because compromise and tolerance are low-value behaviors, and grievances cannot be eliminated, so we must dare to make our own demands. , express your bad feelings and don’t hold them back.
Of course, we can’t show bad feelings too early, otherwise it’s easy for girls to regard them as impatient people and then pass them by. Therefore, we can express our dissatisfaction in a humorous way after chatting several times, such as:
"Why do I feel that the atmosphere of the chat is a bit awkward, and I feel like I don’t even need to turn on the air conditioner"
< p> "If you continue to be so cold, I'll have to..., I'll have to work harder"If you don't have a good interaction when chatting with a girl you like, it's often because you don't find anything in the chat. If prospective girls want to express their feelings and requirements in a humorous way, then reopen the topic to guide girls to join the chat, which will naturally lead to better interactions.
