Many boys are eloquent in normal conversations, but when it comes to chatting with girls they like, their brains are like a short-circuit and they often get cold feet. So how should you chat with girls to avoid the embarrassment of being cold?
1. Make chatting interactive
Chatting is a communication and interaction between two people, not one-way Questions and answers. When many brothers are chatting with the girl they like, in order to get the other party to reply, they always ask a series of questions:
"Have you eaten?"
"Have you slept?"
"How old are you?"
Although these topics can be discussed, they need to be discussed in a certain way. If you ask in this way, it will easily end in silence after a few words. So, make some changes in the way you chat.
For example, if the question "How old are you" is replaced by the following, the effect will be much better:
"I guess you are only 18 years old"
"Why?"
"Because you have a baby face, which makes you look particularly small."
"Where is it?"
-balabala...< /p>
For another example, if you ask about the other person's hometown, you can also start like this:
"I feel like you are more like a southerner"
"Why"
"Because it is rare to see girls as fair as you in the north"
"Am I very white?"
-balabala...
On the same topic, if you change the communication method, the effect will be completely different? Praising the other party in a statement can still function as a question. Not only can you get a response from the girl, but it will also not make the girl feel disgusted with you. .
2. Make chatting interesting
Why are there always a steady stream of chats between girls and their besties? Topic? When you chat with your friends, can you talk too much? In fact, if you look carefully, you will find that this kind of chat is more like telling a story. Some people say, what should I do if my life is dull and my knowledge and experience are boring? In fact, chatting with the girl I like The same is true when it comes to sex, and these daily interests are the easiest to attract them.
For example:
Man: "Do you like cats?"
Woman: "Yes"
Man: "Really I also like cats very much. I even raised one before, but I didn’t expect..."
Female: "Did you lose it?"
Male: "No, it turned out..." I raised him like a dog, and he doesn’t have the arrogance of a cat at all." Woman: "Haha, that means you raised her well."
The above conversation is interesting and normal. She only needs a simple response and you can continue the conversation easily and naturally. In addition, we should pay attention to the fact that storytelling has a rhythm. Stories and words should not be thrown out all at once, but should be rushed and slow, and relaxed and relaxed.
3. Stop losses in time
Many brothers like to make a common mistake: every time they talk to a girl We had to chat to death, and we ended the conversation when we ran out of topics to talk about. We even forced the girl to say "I'm busy, let's talk some other time" before awkwardly ending the chat. Although your original intention is to try your best to save the collapsed chat state. Unfortunately, it backfired. In fact, chatting with the girl you like should be a very relaxing and enjoyable experience.
Since it’s chatting, there will definitely be highs and lows. No matter how good you are at seducing girls, you can’t keep chatting with her forever. Therefore, when you have been chatting with a girl for a while and start to find that she only replies to you with some emoticons or short "hmm" words, you should give it up and stop the loss in time, such as: </ p>
"My friend has arrived. I will pick him up at the airport later. Let's chat later."
"I'm going to see a movie later. Let's talk later."
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