Boys usually take the initiative in chatting, but when many boys take the initiative, they often encounter girls who do not reply to messages. What is the reason for this situation and what should be done?
1. What is the reason why girls do not reply to messages?
If after a long period of time (such as If there is no reply for more than 12 hours), then it is basically certain that the girl has seen it. If a girl hasn’t responded to the message after seeing it, it’s mainly because of the following reasons:
It’s been too long, what you said has expired, and the girl doesn’t know how to reply to you.
Your topic is too old and too limited, and it cannot arouse the other party's interest at all.
Your impression score continues to decline, and girls have a tendency to get tired of you.
The question you posted is too sensitive for people to reply to.
We need to know that if a girl does not reply to your messages, it is obvious that she is not interested in you. We hope that this kind of cold treatment can make you quit.
Many boys will wonder, I was chatting well with a girl, why did she suddenly become like this? In fact, the reason is still Here, let’s take a look at the scenarios in which boys with low EQ chat with girls:
Every time I chat with a girl, the first words are always “What are you doing?”
I can’t always find a suitable topic to talk to girls, so I start asking girls some questions, such as how the weather is like, whether I am tired from work, and whether I need to put on more clothes when it’s cold, and the awkward conversations continue.
When chatting with girls, always show concern and warmth.
Too frequent chat frequency, caring for girls meticulously, insisting on continuing to chat when you can’t find a topic, and not creating a comfortable chat atmosphere. These are all points deducted. Girls like to have their hearts pounding. The feeling, rather than just flattering and licking.
If you want to change this situation, you need to get rid of the mentality of "goddess, come back to me, I want to chat with you".
2. What to do if a girl doesn’t reply to messages?
Back off and reduce the frequency of chatting
Since a girl ignores you, if you go to chat with a girl again, just It will make her more bored. You can reduce the frequency of chatting with girls. Chatting with girls once or twice a week is enough. Use retreat to relieve her of her wariness towards you and reduce her sense of need.
In the process of chatting with a girl, if she replies to you quickly, you should also be faster. If she replies slowly, you should not reply in seconds. If she replies with a few words, you should not reply every time. Every time I send a lot of text. She's obviously already done it, so you shouldn't post any more topics, and you should take the initiative to end the chat.
Enrich yourself and show your value
Enrich your life and WeChat circle of friends and show your high value. Your living conditions will also make her curious, especially when you suddenly disappear. She will be curious about why you suddenly ignored her, and she will be curious about your life and see what you have been doing recently.
When chatting, you should remain neither humble nor overbearing, instead of saying "please" all the time, frequent greetings, or always saying "what are you doing", "go to bed early", and if the conversation is good, just have a good chat. If the conversation is not going smoothly, you should retreat and end it as soon as possible. Don't get into a fight. Forced chatting will only be counterproductive.
Learn to provide emotional value
Chatting is to make communication easier, not to make girls feel oppressed. If you want a woman to like chatting with you, you need to do one thing well, and that is a sense of mystery.
Let the girl look forward to what you say and guess what you are thinking. Do you like her? Build a good impression with the girl in a relaxed and pleasant chatting atmosphere.
If she likes pets, you can send her a short video of a cute pet you met by chance and ask her what breed it is. If she likes to travel, you can discuss travel with her, or ask her for advice on things she is good at. In short, talk about things when you have something to say, rather than looking for trouble when there is nothing to do.
