Many boys attribute the reason why they have difficulty chatting with girls to the fact that they have no topic, but the topic itself cannot make girls like you. In the topic, learning how to provide emotional value is the core of what can really attract girls. So if you want to make chatting more attractive, you need to learn to provide emotional value in chatting. So how to do it specifically?
For example, when ordinary boys chat with girls, their opening remarks are always "Are you there?" The chatting method of "Have you eaten?" is very simple, and even if girls reply to you, they can only reply "Have you eaten" or "Have you eaten yet?" It's because I haven't eaten, so many girls will choose not to reply to the message at all.
Men with high emotional intelligence will start by describing the state and feelings at that time. For example, an opening sentence such as "I just finished hot pot with my friends and I feel I have gained two pounds" can provide girls with many extendable topics. For example, friends can extend to their respective friend circles, and hot pot can extend to more Food, how to slim down after gaining two pounds, fitness exercises and many more topics. In this kind of chat, you will provide a lot of space for girls to pick up the conversation.
When chatting with girls, many times it is not because the girls are aloof, but because your way of chatting makes them have nothing to answer. There is no space, so girls can only reply to you with indifferent answers such as um, oh, I ate it.
When you ask a girl if she has eaten, logically she can only answer yes or no. But if you ask a girl what delicious food she has eaten, she will have a lot more room to answer. Same topic, different chat methods, the results will be completely different. Therefore, learning chat skills and improving your emotional intelligence can make your chat more attractive.
When many boys are chatting with girls, there will always be awkward conversations without topics. After a long time, Even if a girl likes you, she will gradually lose her enthusiasm for you, because he can't feel any emotional ups and downs while chatting with you, which will only make him feel that chatting with you is boring and meaningless. Therefore, being able to chat is also a very important skill for chasing girls. If you are still stupid and don’t know how to chat with girls, you can add to private message at any time and I will help you answer questions. You can also receive a free chat course.
