Many people are easily nervous when facing a girl they like, and have no topic to talk about, and then fall into the cold. At this time, the more they want to break the cold situation, the less they can perform well, and it is easier for the girl to leave an unpleasant impression in their eagerness. Good impression. Let me share with you how to restart the chat with a girl after the chat has gone cold.
1. Accept the rhythm of chatting
Male: Your family sees that you are single, does it push you hard?
Female: Yeah.
Male: Your photos are very nice, but I am more elegant.
Female: Thank you.
Male: I guess your next reply will only be three words: I will continue to work hard.
Female: Hahaha.
Although this kind of chat may seem a bit awkward, it is also useful if you want to break the cold situation urgently. If you have not prepared some topics to talk about in advance, or you suddenly don’t know how to talk, just Just have a hard-working chat like this. At least the girl will reply to you, which is better than the two of you just sitting around in silence.
2. Admit the problem of awkward chatting in cold places
Male: I used to be good at chatting, but now I can’t. I know what to talk about (manual dog head).
Female: Haha! Is it because of me?
Male: I’d better bite the bullet and talk a little more! If it's a bit embarrassing, please bear with me and I'll treat you to super smooth ocean lobster later.
Female: Haha, okay!
Directly admit that you are currently in a cold situation or having an awkward conversation, and at the same time find an excuse for yourself and give the girl some benefits. The girl will be embarrassed not to give you face. Of course, if you are facing someone who is aloof or arrogant, you need to change your approach, for example:
Man: You seem a bit aloof~
Woman: Maybe.
Male: Let me put on a big cotton-padded coat for you tomorrow, the kind of green flower in the army...
Female: Haha!
No matter how aloof a girl is, you can still try to make her laugh. As long as she laughs, she will not put on her aloof airs to get along with you, and your chat will be much smoother after that. .
3. Talk about topics that girls are interested in
For example, if a girl likes to post selfies, you can say:< /p>
M: The angle in your photo on the 13th is really amazing.
Female: What’s wrong?
Male: Surprisingly good-looking.
Female: Hahaha!
Or if you can’t find any points of interest in the other party for the time being, you can use current hot topics or third-party topics to chat, such as:
Man: Pick up the girl by teasing her.Come on, it turns out that I also like to use earthy love words.
Female: Yeah.
Male: Infusion, infusion, I miss you all night. I'll try it and see if it has any effect
Female: Haha.
Male: Shall we have dinner together on Saturday?
Female: Well, let’s see then!
As long as you can find a topic that a girl is interested in, no matter whether your previous chat was cold or awkward, she will be able to put aside her previous unpleasantness and chat with you passionately. Of course, the premise is that you have to know what topics the girl is interested in and what her points of interest are.
It means sharing how to restart the chat with a girl after a cold break. I hope that next time boys will not have a cold break when chatting with a girl. Urgent, you still have many ways to alleviate the embarrassment.
