In fact, many men have encountered this situation when chatting with girls: they had a good chat with girls at the beginning, but after chatting for a while, they found that girls responded less and less, or they just said "Oh "," Haha" replied with a few words. Later in the conversation, I found that the girl had run away.
In this case, it is very likely that there is a problem with your chatting method, which makes girls feel that you are "inappropriate" and eliminates you. Below, we will discuss with you 5 chatting methods that make girls disgusted. , hope you don’t make these mistakes in chat.
1. Use teasing as humor
Some boys have learned some one-sided love skills. See the above He said that he should speak humorously, make girls laugh, arouse girls' interest, and then use various funny language to chat with girls. Sometimes, a girl is clearly chatting with him in a serious manner, but he responds with a funny reply, which leaves the girl stunned. After one or two times, the girl not only cannot develop a good impression of him, but also thinks that this person is just a tease. In fact, humor does not just make her laugh, it is humor if it has connotation.
2. Like to guess randomly
Many people fall into this trap. Some boys pursue girls, but a word or even a smile from the girl can keep him guessing for the whole day. The girl was happy and praised him, and he couldn't help but start to think about it. Did she mean something to him when she praised him?
As a result, he became more and more excited! If the girl is not happy, , rolled his eyes at him, and he also began to think: Did he do something wrong or say the wrong thing, which made her unhappy? Did she not like him anymore? When he thought about it, he immediately felt disappointed. If you have this mentality, you will only regard her as the center, and all your words and deeds will be led by her. This kind of man is not attractive to women.
3. He talks a lot without taking into account girls
Some boys like to show off their eloquence and brag. Own. When chatting with a girl, she gets excited and talks more loudly. She edits a long paragraph and sends it, or sends a series of voice messages. The girl has no chance to communicate with him, and she doesn’t even have a chance to interrupt. How long did it take before I was directly blocked by a girl? When communicating with a girl, you should pay attention to the interaction between the two. If you keep talking and the girl just responds to you with a few words, you should know better.
4. Asking girls why they don’t reply to messages
When communicating with girls, it is inevitable that they will respond slowly or not reply to messages. At this time, some boys couldn't sit still, and then asked the girls: Are you there? Why don't you reply to the message? Are you feeling uncomfortable? Are you busy? Or, send a lot of messages.
In fact, the main reasons why girls don’t reply to your messages are as follows:
1) She saw it but has no time to reply;
2) She doesn’t want to reply;
3) She has not thought about how to reply to you;
4) She forgot to reply.
But no matter what the reason is, if she doesn’t reply to your messages, and then you send her many messages, it will only show that you are eager to get her reply, and then your attraction in her eyes will be It will plummet and she will feel like she already has you and doesn't need to invest any more time in you. If a girl doesn't see your message, you can simply remind her after a few minutes.
5. Like to teach others
Some boys want to show that they are a confident and strong man, but they also There is a misunderstanding of the concept of self-confidence and power. When communicating with a girl, use a lecturing tone to talk to her. But a girl is not your subordinate, and she has done nothing wrong. If you talk to her in a lecturing tone, will she have a good impression of you? If you want others to like you, you must learn to respect others.
When chatting with girls, you must first have a correct mentality and master the rhythm of replying to messages. Don’t keep asking girls. While respecting yourself, you must also respect others.
