After you successfully strike up a conversation with a girl, you need to contact her on chat software such as WeChat so that you can expand your relationship with the girl. If you don’t go to chat with a girl you like, others will naturally get in first, so you must Seize the opportunity and use the method of chatting to flirt with girls to make them your girlfriends.
1. Preparation for chatting
Before chatting with girls, you definitely need to do some preparations. First look at the girl's circle of friends to get a general understanding of the girl's personality, situation, and living conditions, and then try to chat with the girl.
For example: A girl’s circle of friends works overtime every day.
Then you can talk to her about work and rest - are you working overtime again today... It feels like you are always busy... How can you rest on weekends?
For example: a girl’s circle of friends is full of funny updates.
Then you can comment and interact in her circle of friends, play some jokes and popular memes - young men don’t talk about martial arts...
For example, a girl’s circle of friends is Exquisite Life + Life insights.
Then you can talk to girls about ideological matters such as taste, art, will, etc.
Preparations before chatting must be in place first, so that the chat can start smoothly. If the girl’s circle of friends has not been updated or is not visible, then start with her avatar, nickname, personalized signature and other details. think.
2. Chatting test
If you want to chat with a girl as your girlfriend, you have to think about this girl Does it match you? Do you have a chance? Is she out of a window period...
All these require tentative communication in chat to arrive at a well-founded judgment. For example ——Girls have a boyfriend at this time and are in the heat of the moment, so don’t chat and flirt with girls, otherwise they will only be blocked and deleted.
If a girl has a good chat interaction with you and will pick up your topic, or even continue the topic or actively start the topic, it means that she is in the window period, and you need to launch an offensive at this time. Go chat with her, interact and tease her, share her life status, and get closer to you as soon as possible.
3. The progress of the chat
When you become familiar with a girl, the girl will usually start to take the initiative to chat with you. At this time, she already has a good impression of you, so I want to know more about you and chat with you more.
At this time, you need to use your own personality to attract you, so that the girl will admire and appreciate you, and gradually establish an emotional foundation in the girl's heart. This is also a particularly critical step in the progress of chatting.
Some boys may be thinking-don’t all girls like humorous boys?Are you kidding? Then make more jokes, be playful, and be funny. First of all, you must declare that not every girl is like this, and not every boy can learn it. You must develop the chat content according to the actual situation.
For girls who are more serious, don’t say naughty jokes. For girls who are more aloof, don’t say earthy love words. Every girl has her own personality. Find her emotional stimulation point. Only by stimulating her emotions of joy, relaxation, and comfort can you advance your relationship to the ambiguous stage.
4. Emotions in chatting
When you are in the ambiguous period, you and the girl usually know each other in your heart. I like it, but I am in a state of uncertainty because no one has expressed it and is too embarrassed to point it out.
At this time, you can have more emotional exchanges with girls, chatting about moods, thoughts, memories, etc., to trigger more emotional resonance, preferably a "confidant feeling."
Once you have emotional resonance, you can start chatting and flirting with her. Find the opportunity to say some ambiguous love words and make some vague invitations. You can often quickly break through the ambiguous period and advance to the dating stage. !
