Sometimes if a boy likes a girl too much, he will show it very obviously and let the girl feel it. But if you are younger than a girl, the girl may generally not accept it. Instead, she says that you are her little crush in front of others. What does the girl mean by this? What should she do? Is there any hope of pursuing her?
1. What does a girl mean when she says you are her little crush?
When a girl says you are her little crush, it is a bit similar to what I mean by treating you as a younger brother. As for a sister and a younger brother, they are the same. We can't get together, so the girl can regard this as a kind of polite rejection of you. But girls regard you as a younger brother, which has both good and bad sides:
The good side is that girls recognize you as a person and think you can interact with her. After all, it is not normal for a younger brother to seek out his older sister. Something happened? But the bad side is that what she means is that you are not mature enough (mainly in terms of thinking). You don't understand her, you don't understand her, and you can't give her enough security (maybe in life or in thought).
2. What to do if a girl says you are her crush
As we said above, a girl says You are her little crush, but she thinks you are not mature enough and not her ideal love partner, so what should you do? The method is very simple. If you make her feel mature, then she will not treat you as a younger brother, but will treat you as a normal man. Let’s talk about how to do it below:
1. Find a way to get close to her
First of all, a girl treats you as a little crush, which has advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that you are the closest to her. People are the people closest to her inner world. As long as you pay attention, you will become the person who understands her best. Because she is not wary of you and will share the joys and sorrows of life with you. The disadvantage is that she may think that you are not mature enough, that your inner world is not strong enough, that you are not tactful enough in dealing with others, etc... I believe she must have considered the idea of ??being a couple with you. Maybe it is because she thinks you are not mature enough that she became a sister. brother relationship. So you need to increase your experience. Whenever she complains to you, you can discover the problem and your ability to solve it. When you get her approval, you can basically capture her heart...< /p>
2. Don’t treat girls as sisters
Secondly, girls can treat you as a little fanboy. It can't be controlled, but don't treat her like a sister. Treating you like a younger brother may be because she thinks you are a bit naive in some aspects, or it may be that you are not naive, but she feels that you are younger than her. Even if you are mature, she will I think you are childish. She treats you as a younger brother because she thinks you are not suitable to be her boyfriend yet.
At this time, you should do more and talk less. Don’t always say verbally how much I like you. You should let her feel it, care about every detail, and be there when she needs it.Show up immediately when the time comes, help her, and let her feel that you are just young, but actually very mature and responsible, and the girl will slowly accept you.
Finally, don’t feel like you have no hope when a girl says you are her crush. If you give up without giving it a try, you will regret it in the future.
