Many people think that a successful confession means that two people are together, and the next thing will be natural. If you think so, you're still too young. Although a successful confession may seem like a good thing on the surface, the two people still lack some foundation for love, so many people feel that it is extremely embarrassing after a successful confession. What should they do at this time?
1. Why is it embarrassing if a successful confession of love
Although it seems that a man and a woman can be together naturally after a successful confession, in fact, both parties have not yet adapted to the transition from being single to being in a relationship. So there will be an awkward feeling.
The boys’ feeling is: when we drive together, we just try to find ways to contact and chat with girls every day, hoping that girls will approve of our self-driving. After the confession is successful, the girl accepts herself. At this time, the boy does not know what to do and feels that he has lost the direction of pursuing the girl.
And girls will feel that they were single a few days ago and suddenly became someone else's girlfriend. How should I contact boys at this time? Moreover, boys may make some intimate behaviors after successfully confessing their love. These behaviors will be a bit uncomfortable for girls, so girls will also feel embarrassed.
Therefore, in fact, both men and women will have an awkward period after a successful confession. This needs two people to spend it together so that the relationship will continue. Otherwise, even if the confession is successful, they will not be together in the end.
2. What to do if you are embarrassed after the confession is successful
1. Integrate each other’s lives
Because before the confession is successful, both men and women have their own lives, and love It is necessary to integrate the lives of two people and slowly get used to living together. Therefore, if you are successful in confessing your love, you need to learn to slowly integrate into each other's lives. For example, if a boy likes to play games, let's see if he can bring his girlfriend to play with him. Of course it would be better if we could do so together. The girls like potted plants. We go to the flower market together on weekends and buy the flowers we like and raise them together. Usually take each other to your friends' gatherings so that your friends can witness your love. In their free time, they talk about their ideals, family, and plans for the future... Slowly, they get used to spending time together, which is plain and natural.
2. Show the truest side
In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, before the confession is successful, , they may show their best side to each other in order to attract them, and as they spend more and more time together, they will show their true side. Therefore, whether you are a boy or a girl, you must show your truest side during the embarrassing stage after a successful confession. Although this may create a bad impression, it will not cause inconsistency, and it will also give each other the opportunity to learn more about each other, and it will also prepare for possible future problems.Listing the problems encountered is also the basis for welcoming the love period and long-term relationship.
It is normal for men and women to be extremely embarrassed after a successful confession. The key is whether you can accept this embarrassment calmly, and then work together to get rid of this embarrassment and usher in a natural and happy love life.
