If a girl can chat with you for a day or two, it doesn’t mean anything. Maybe she was just a little bored during those two days. So what if a girl can continue a chat? Does it mean she has a crush on you? Wouldn't it be funny to confess your love under such circumstances? Let me analyze for you what it means to be able to chat with a girl for a month continuously?
1. Look at the content of your chat
Let me make a point first: If you really think that if you can chat with a girl for a month continuously, it means that she has fallen in love with you... you can only It shows that you are immature in thinking and have not opened up diverse perspectives when looking at problems.
Why do we say that a handsome guy’s confession is called courtship, and a frustrated guy’s confession is called sexual harassment? Even if you can chat with a girl continuously for a month, it still depends on whether your three views collide when you chat. Have you understood what kind of love she expects? Do you control the atmosphere when you chat with her? How much information and practical information did you collect from chatting with her?
After you know what kind of love she expects and what qualities her ideal lover has, have you tried to make yourself close to her standards for choosing a mate?
You know that girls are gentle to people they like, but do you know how cruel girls are to people they don’t like?
You know that girls’ IQ drops when they fall in love, but have you considered that girls are extremely rational when they reject others?
What else did you do besides chatting? Eating, watching movies, shopping?
If you and a girl can chat continuously for a month, but all you talk about are boring issues to pass the time, this is actually of no use in achieving emotional breakthrough.
2. Do you really understand girls?
Although you can chat with a girl continuously for a month , but do you really understand girls? Of course, this does not refer to girls’ one-sided remarks, but do you know the real situation of girls (after all, the other end of the phone may be a big guy who picks his feet)? For example:
What are the girls’ own conditions like? Are you a top academic or a social butterfly? Are you both a top academic and a social butterfly? And you? Do you think you can have the upper hand in a comprehensive value comparison with her? What is the ratio of men to women in the environment you and she live in? Are there more people of the same sex or people of the opposite sex around you? Is there more people of the same sex or people of the opposite sex around her?
How many times has she been in love? How many suitors does she have at the moment? Has she complained to you about what all her previous suitors did wrong? Can you avoid making the same mistakes they made?
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The things listed above should be considered as a way to attract more attention. How can you be with a girl? Chatting continuously for a month may help you get together, but it is not a necessary condition for you to be with her. Through appearancesLooking at the essence, if you can be together, it must be the result of a series of factors.
