Many people like to confess their love to girls, but it really shouldn’t be too early. After many people confess their feelings, the most common thing they hear is not an answer of yes or no, but a word "Huh?" full of doubts and confusion.
Yes, many times you think you have made your crazy hints clear enough, but in fact, in the eyes of the other party, you just gave her a stick out of the blue, catching her off guard, and she was not mentally prepared at all. No - especially when you confess your love too quickly, this sudden and unprepared feeling is even more obvious.
Believe me, if you confess your love suddenly, the scene will not be as surprising and touching as shown in many Korean dramas, and it may even be embarrassing.
When you suddenly confess to the other person not long after getting along, you are actually making a gamble: you haven't fully understood the other person yet. When you are thinking, you have studied your feelings and look forward to the other party giving you a perfect answer.
You must also be very clear about the fate of betting on dogs.
Premature confession is actually letting the other party make an important decision hastily without knowing you very well.
Don’t tell me that you think there is nothing wrong with the idea of ??[find it first and give it a try slowly]. This idea is a big problem: for you, you have gained your ideal But for her, it's completely unfair for her to fall in love with someone she doesn't know very well.
Maybe you are a really nice person, but after all, the other person has just met you and does not know everything about you in detail. At this time, if you ask this person to make a decision, do you think the result will be What? Obviously the other party will fall into a state of confusion and anxiety.
When people are entangled and anxious, they tend to make a conservative choice. In this situation, I just refuse to be with you and remain single as I am familiar with before.
Therefore, premature confession will often make the other party give you an answer you least want to hear after careful consideration.
In addition, premature confession will also make you fall into an anxious mood: because you will always be obsessed with what the other person is like, and you care very much about the other person's feelings.
In such a state, your psychological state can easily become unbalanced, and you will unknowingly put too much pressure on the other party during the communication process.
I have never met a few people who can still have happy and normal relationships after confessing their love. As far as I know, many people confess their love. After that, you will be in a state of mind explosion, in a very unstable state:
They will easily over-interpret all the behaviors and actions of the other party, and will try their best to force the other party to make the final commitment. Once the other party shows hesitation, , they become impatient and frustrated.
From your point of view, your words have been spoken clearly enough, and you don’t know what the other party is thinking; from the other party’s point of view, there is no clue at all for your sudden actions, and she needs some Time to carefully consider your request; and when the other person hesitates, you become more impatient, and even feel that the other person is a scumbag playing with your feelings...
Loop In the repeated misunderstandings, one day your mutual emotions will collide fiercely, and in the end you will no longer even be friends.
