For boys in the third year of junior high school, girls who have just added WeChat are a big challenge, especially when chatting, how to create a good opening is even more difficult. The following will give you a detailed analysis of the chat opening from the perspective of several subtitles.
Self-introduction and greetings
In the opening remarks of a chat, self-introduction and greetings are essential. You can introduce yourself first, tell the other person your name, grade and class, and then greet the other person. For example: "Hello, I am Li Ming, a student in Class 5 of the third grade of junior high school. Which grade are you in?" Such an opening can help the other party understand you better, and can also shorten the distance between you and the other party.
Chat based on the other person’s information
Be sure to check the other person’s information before adding him or her as a friend . Chatting can be smoother and more natural based on the other person's profile. For example, "I think your profile picture is so beautiful. Where was it taken?", "I think you seem to like music. What kind of music do you like?" Such questions can make the other party feel your care and concern. Interested, so there are more topics to chat about.
Be modest and natural, avoid being too forceful
In the process of chatting, do not be too forceful or self-righteous, and chat with a humble and natural attitude. For example: "I see in your profile that you like to play games, but I haven't played in a long time because I'm busy." Such an opening will show your humility and the other person's interest, making it easier to communicate with each other in future chats.
Treat others with courtesy and avoid offending others
When chatting, be sure to treat others with courtesy and avoid offending others. For example: "Your avatar is so weird, what is that?" Such an opening statement will make the other party feel uncomfortable and reject your chat. A better way is: "I like your avatar very much, but I'm not sure what it is. Can you please explain it?" Such an opening is not only friendly, but also makes the other person feel respected.
The above are some perspectives on how to start a conversation with a third-year junior high school boy with a girl who has just joined WeChat. It should be noted that during the chat, try to avoid topics involving politics, religion, or other sensitive topics. The most important thing is to maintain a friendly and relaxed atmosphere during the chat.