As we all know, the most important thing when chasing girls is chatting. But many boys and girls never get along with each other when chatting. Even when they talk, they feel like they are talking about their own things. What should we do in this situation?
1. The reason why I can’t chat with girls
Too worried about girls’ reactions
When chatting, we worry about saying the wrong thing, worrying about not leaving a good impression on girls, and then being in a hurry and at a loss. This will affect our language expression ability and even sometimes lead to speechlessness.
Can’t find a suitable topic
I want to talk about some experiences, but I am worried that the topic discussion is too simple. I want to find a breakthrough in the girl’s personal hobbies, but I also find that the girl seems to have no personality. I have a hobby, but I have to chat, so I can only talk honestly, making the chat atmosphere more and more embarrassing.
Chat Shadow
When I interacted with a girl before, I was disgusted by the girl, so there is a shadow. For example: when I confessed to a girl before, I was rejected by her. A great sense of frustration will make you lose your passion for chatting.
Thinking too much
People look back and think carefully about whether they are chatting with girls. Have thoughts like, "How should I say this?" "If I say this, will it offend her?" or "Would it be boring if I responded like that?" In other words, reply to this message. Think about it.
2. What should I do if I can’t talk to a girl?
You don’t have to respond to the difficult questions raised by girls
Many boys have such a misconception. I feel that when interacting with girls, I need to be nice to them and even try to please them. The girls racked their brains and tried their best to solve the problems raised by them, without giving the slightest hint of fraud. Then I think girls will fall in love with you like this.
But the result is always the opposite. Not only does the relationship not escalate, but it actually makes girls less and less interested in you. Don't take a girl's casual questions so seriously, and don't think that every question she asks is a test of you.
Remember, don’t ignore your own value, let alone promote girls. Everyone is born equal. In emotional relationships, if you are the only one who works hard on both sides, the result will not be achieved after all. together.
Reply however you want
Except for confession, you can say whatever you want, of course , there is a prerequisite that there is some interest in each other. When the girl asks a question, your answer does not need to be looking for those fancy reference answers.
Please treat the girl you want to pursue as an ordinary person, no need to take examsConsider whether each reply is right or wrong, and use your own instinctive reaction to "leverage your strengths and avoid weaknesses" to respond. A girl will not fall in love with you because of a few nice words, and a girl will not hate you because of a few unflattering words. .
Therefore, if you want to chat with a girl, the most important thing is to correct your mentality and don't let the girl feel that you are childish. Who likes to date a childish person?< /p>
