The success rate of confession is not high, but many boys just like to confess. What's more, they confess prematurely before they have known each other for a long time, which makes it impossible for them to become friends. Today, the editor will teach you how to recover from rejection after premature confession.
After a premature confession is rejected, first of all, you must do one thing: don’t pester! Because, she refused You have become a fait accompli, and if you say you want her to change her mind at this moment, you would be too naive.
Therefore, not entangled is the attitude you should express most at this time.
Then, what we have to do is to stimulate the girl’s heart, attract her again, and make her realize your value!
The first step: stop being unconditional towards her good. Make her aware of the changes in life without you.
The second step: Learn to refuse passive things, and learn to refuse rationally when facing her, causing her to feel a sense of loss
The third step: Strengthen your own advantages and connect with her surroundings The opposite sex you come into contact with forms a strong contrast. Let her look around. You are the most image-conscious, you are the most understanding of her thoughts, and you are the most motivated...
Step 4: Arouse her sense of competition. Don't let her feel that you are already her subordinate, that you are already taken over by her.
You need to let her know that you just like her, but you are not determined to marry her. You can have contact with other people of the opposite sex, eat and date with other people of the opposite sex...
It should be noted that this action is to allow you to have more relationships with the opposite sex and make her feel the crisis. Instead of directly interacting with other people of the opposite sex.
But if you still like her very much, try to control the distance between you and other people of the opposite sex, and don’t let her mistakenly think that you are already in love with someone else.
Girls all have a comparison mentality. When you complete these four steps, girls usually have the following message in their minds:
1. He will not treat me unconditionally as he did before. I can't go back to the previous state of being taken care of everywhere.
2. He has improved himself and is already the boy with the highest overall score in my circle.
3. He is no longer devoted to me. If I can’t keep him, other girls will be advantaged.
When a girl thinks this way, she has already begun to seriously think about her relationship with you. Even before long, she will come back to you!
