What does it mean when a girl says we should just forget it- What should boys do



Maybe you are still trying to maintain the relationship between you and the girl, but at this time the girl wants to give up and tell you let’s forget it; maybe you are still pursuing the girl hard, and I hope your actions can make She promised to be with you, but the girl said it's impossible for you to be together, so let's forget it... What exactly does it mean when a girl says we'd better forget it? What should a boy do when a girl says forget it?

1. The meaning of girls saying "forget it"

Generally speaking, girls saying "forget it" is a very bad phenomenon, which shows their disgust and dissatisfaction with boys. Like it, hate it, even to the point of breaking up. Specifically, there are the following situations:

1. Maybe in the face of your pursuit, girls also try hard to like you. But some factors made her feel entangled in her heart, and she really couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart. Here, when a girl says "forget it", she can understand the meaning of both parties letting go.

2. If a girl says forget it to the person she likes, it may be because the girl has taken the initiative for so long, but the other person never takes the initiative, and she feels that there is no chance. The girl saying "forget it" here includes disappointment and helplessness! Maybe I want to be myself.

3. When a girl faces a suitor and says forget it, it is a bit equivalent to "inappropriate", which is a slightly more subtle rejection! Maybe the girl thinks that saying this won't hurt you.

4. If a girl thinks something will be troublesome and doesn’t want you to be so entangled, she will also say forget it! At this time, she really doesn’t care, and you don’t have to do it deliberately. To blindly guess whether the girl meant something else when she said forget it.

5. When a girl is disappointed in you, she says forget it, which means she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore. She doesn’t want to talk to you at the moment. It's useless for you to pester me too much.

6. If a girl doesn’t agree with your point of view or words, she will be angry if she says forget it.

7. Some girls like to use "forget it" as a mantra, which has no special meaning. (Is it a girl’s catchphrase? You should be able to detect it when you get along with her)

2. What should I do if a girl says forget it?

As a boy, you can’t do it when a girl says When it's time to forget it, just give up and leave. Sometimes your persistence will make a girl change her attitude towards you.

For example, a girl wants you to help, but turns out that you have your own things to be busy with. At this time, the girl says forget it, and she will figure out a solution on her own. At this time, boys should not follow the girl, work harder on your own, and help the girl handle the matter no matter how troublesome it is. Instead, she will appreciate your attentiveness to her.

Actually, I was a little frustrated when I said let’s just forget it. This guy should use a positive attitude to influence her so that she doesn’t give up when she encounters a little setback. Sometimes hard-won feelings are easier to cherish.

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