When you have just added a girl to WeChat, you definitely need a good opening to slowly open up the topic. However, most boys' openings are very bad. They often use "How old are you?" "What are you doing?" "You" What kind of partner are you looking for?"... such a boring opening line.
You know, when chatting, it is very impolite to ask questions at the beginning. If you just add a girl to WeChat, you will use questions as an opening statement. Not only will you expose your sense of need, but you will also appear Very straight man, if you think about it from your perspective, if a woman asks you "How much money do you have" and "Are you handsome" as soon as you meet her, would you also think that this woman is too realistic and you will feel disgusted and don't want to be with her? Should she continue chatting?
Therefore, the WeChat opening line with a girl should be chosen according to different situations. Below, the editor will share two WeChat conversation starter chat techniques to teach you how to quickly open a topic.
1. Sincere topics + interesting chats
Assume that you are introduced by friends or on a blind date. The relationship between men and women who met in this way is actually a "slightly familiar stranger friend" relationship, that is, they understand some basic information about each other, but not too well.
Secondly, for men and women who meet in this way, most of the emotions contained by both parties are actually "sincerity", that is, they want to seriously find a suitable partner; there is another deep-seated problem, which is to understand , the reason why you were introduced through friends means that the girl may have faced many "boring" straight men before and has yet to find the right one; therefore, in her heart, she also hopes to meet someone who can be "interesting" in chatting. man.
After understanding this, we successfully deduced the idea of ????the opening method. The idea is: "sincere" topics start interaction + "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere!
For example:
After just adding the girl on WeChat, we can use: "Nice to meet you, how should I call you?" ?" Such a sincere opening statement. With such an opening, most girls will tell you their name and are willing to get to know each other!
Then when the girl replies to us, we follow a sincere line of thought and tell the girl her name. The initial interaction is "information exchange", so that each can have a sense of familiarity.
Of course, it is not enough for us to just reply with our names at this time, because as mentioned just now, our ideas should also involve "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere!
So , after replying with our names, we need to add "You can also call me little brother~". Use this sentence to adjust the atmosphere of the chat and make it interesting.
Moreover, this is also aTest, test how interested girls are in us! Learn more chatting skills and useful information, add, and get a free copy of the "Chat Openings" course.
If a girl replies "Haha, hello, little brother", it means that she has a good interest in you. Next, as long as you maintain the rhythm of chatting and control your own needs, you can Keep chatting well; of course, you may not bark. Not barking does not mean that the girl is disgusted. It only means that the girl's interest at the time is not high enough. Therefore, the next rhythm can focus on the display and the attraction of the chat. above.
After this opening chat, our opening ideas have been completed.
2. Interesting topics + attractive chat
Assuming you are chatting through a social APP or striking up a conversation The relationship between men and women who met in this way is actually a "stranger" relationship in terms of relationship positioning. Both parties do not know the information and have little interest.
Secondly, men and women who meet in this way have the attribute of "quick screening", that is, if they like each other, they will chat, and if they don't, they will be very cold.
After understanding this, the idea of ????our opening method is: "Interesting and attractive" is the first priority, not for anything else, just to make girls look at us for the first time, thus creating The desire to continue chatting
For example:
For example, if a girl’s avatar is a pet, then we can start the topic and say: The cat in your avatar is so cute. I have had one before. One, but what happened now...
Use the strategies of telling stories, sharing, praising, and providing value to make girls feel good, make girls feel that you have something in common, or let girls subconsciously I feel that you two have “something to talk about” and that you are a “valuable” man. Moreover, the avatar of each of us must be something we are interested in, so it is right to talk about it. Next, use common topics to arouse the resonance of girls. For example, a relatively common word is "shovel officer". Use this method to bring the distance between each other closer, and then slowly extend the topic, and continue chatting!</ p>
Then, you may ask, I met a girl through social media, but her avatar seems to have nothing to talk about. My circle of friends has also blocked me, and I don’t keep pets, so how can I open it? Chat?
At this time, you can go back to idea 1, use "sincere" topics to start interaction + "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere. Use the same opening remarks, exchange information while teasing, and test girls This trick is actually universal. But if a girl doesn't want to tell you her name, there's no need to spend too much time talking, because she has no interest in you at all, and there will be no results in talking like this. < /p>
Why do some girls tell you their name, and why don’t some girls tell you? Apart from girls’ reserve, it’s actually because they are not attractive enough, so girls are not interested in telling you. You, another reason is that you are not the type she likes. Some girls just want uncles and don't like young men, and some only like young men and don't like uncles.
So, here. There is a related point, that is, your own attractiveness and a girl’s interest in chatting are actually closely related!
The source of your own attractiveness at the beginning is based on your circle of friends. If If you are not attractive enough and your circle of friends is not rich enough, girls will basically not have any special reaction to your opening remarks. Maybe you said a very good opening statement, but the girls will just reply to you. A word of "hmm" will give you a feeling of despair.
Therefore, it is very important to improve your own attractiveness. So what circle of friends is attractive and will make girls interested in chatting? Here. I won’t go into details. The article a few days ago provided more detailed teaching on this issue. Brothers who want to learn more about it can go back and read it later to build up their own attraction. Then it will be easier and more effective for you to chat with girls.
When chatting and interacting with a girl who has just been added on WeChat, we should first think of ways to make the girl interested in us, such as using: stories, humor, routines, palm reading, guidance, etc. to start the interaction. Methods to express our personality and values, so that girls will have a certain interest in us, let girls think that we are an interesting man, first guide her investment emotions in us, and guide girls' interest indicators.
After that, we express our interest, such as praising the girl, expressing approval, etc., so that the girl feels that we are also interested in her.
