Many boys chat with girls and don’t know how to upgrade the relationship. They obviously want to pursue each other, but in the end they become male best friends, leaving the relationship in the friendship zone. So how do you talk to a girl to express your feelings?
There are two prerequisites for chatting with girls on WeChat to express feelings:
1. The girl has a certain interest in you
2. Relatively pleasant Chat status and atmosphere
If these two conditions are not met, most girls will refuse to upgrade the relationship, and it will be very embarrassing.
Maybe the trouble for brothers is that girls don’t seem to be interested in you. So obviously what you need now is to increase your attraction, rather than thinking about upgrading the relationship. You need to take it step by step and have a simple chat. After a while, you can start to improve your relationship.
But you still have to learn this skill, so even if you don’t currently meet this prerequisite, don’t worry, you will always get there.
1. When a girl gives you an interest indicator (favorability)
For example:
After a girl tells you your height, you can say: Not bad, come and touch your head.
Or, if a girl answers a question for you, you can say: I’ll reward you with a lollipop for being so good.
As for whether girls will come over and touch your head, or whether we should reward you with lollipops, it doesn’t really matter. What’s important is that this kind of interaction will allow you to develop from superficial chatting to in-depth chatting.
2. Chat method of describing stories
For example, when you are vaguely inviting a girl (fuzzy invitation : refers to taking you to xxx to eat delicious food another day when I have time. This is a vague invitation, saying that I have time another day, not going right now. Girls can accept it easily and there will be no pressure.) Or when describing a scene, we can use Chat methods that describe stories to upgrade relationships.
For example:
For example, when we are chatting with girls, we need to mobilize girls’ emotions. Commonly used phrases: We can go to the beach to enjoy the evening breeze and take a walk. Holding your hand, although sometimes I feel that you are stupid, but I can bear it, who makes you so cute~
The way of describing a story, the advantage of chatting to upgrade the relationship is that it can While describing the scene, give the girl expectations, expectations and longing, and then let the girl enter this state. The girl will imagine the scene of walking with you, and from time to time, you will hold her hand and play.
3. Role-playing
This trick is also very useful. Role-playing is to use aSome common characters are substituted into the chat process, which is a bit like cosplay in chat. Common characters include bosses and employees, teachers and classmates, me and my concubine, and little brothers and sisters are more or less a kind of cosplay.
For example:
For example, if you are chatting with a girl, you can use the role-playing chat method between the teacher and your classmates.
The girl said: This baby is the cutest
You can reply: Classmate, since it is so cute, let the teacher pinch your little face
This method The relationship escalated immediately, and we used role-playing to break away from the relationship between friends.
Speaking of this, some brothers may ask, if I use this method to upgrade the relationship while chatting, what if it becomes awkward? How to break it?
< p> The method is: fight back with humorFor example, if the girl just touched her head as mentioned above, and the atmosphere was extremely awkward, it means that she may not want to continue the conversation like this, and the heat is not yet there. .
At this time, when the girl replies "Oh", you can reply "You are acting cute in this way again, don't be like this", use humor to reply to the girl's indifference, and maintain the attraction established previously. , your relationship will naturally surpass the friendship zone and be upgraded to a couple.
