When chatting with girls, boys must understand the meaning of their words in order to continue the conversation smoothly. What does it mean when a girl says she is lazy during a chat, and how should she respond with high emotional intelligence?
1. What do girls mean when they say they are lazy?
1. Some girls say they are lazy, which means they are really lazy, but you also have to look at what girls mean when they say they are lazy. On the other hand, is it because you are lazy or too lazy to think too much about things? If you start with laziness in action, then it means to make you more diligent, and also to inoculate you in advance. If it is ideological laziness, it means that she has a relatively simple mind, and there are not so many twists and turns in getting along with her.
2. Some girls are not lazy at all, but they just want to use their laziness as an excuse to see how far you can go for her. This is similar to a blind date between a man and a woman. Girls generally say they don’t know how to do housework. This is to avoid the boys ordering the girls to do this and that when they are together, and to consider what they will do in the future.
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2. How to respond correctly when a girl says she is lazy
1. If you don’t appreciate a girl being lazy With this attitude, you can say, "I find that although you are lazy, you still have one advantage, which is that you are very self-aware." Self-deprecation will be much better than overt belittling, and although girls may listen to it, You won't be happy, but you can treat it as a joke.
2. When a girl says that she is lazy in a self-deprecating tone, you must not cater to her, but tell her that you do not think she is lazy at all. (This is what we often say. Sometimes girls like to joke with others and will choose to laugh at themselves. If you take it seriously, you will lose)
3. Well, in addition to the shortcoming of laziness, you are also beautiful and gentle. , generous, smart, considerate, enthusiastic... Advantages. (As long as the advantages you listed for dating a girl can outweigh the disadvantage of laziness)
4. I know you are lazy, but this is not the reason for you to reject me. I am willing to tolerate you even if you are lazy.
5. Girls who say they are lazy are usually very beautiful. Well, I know the reason. It turns out that beautiful women are lazy and sleep.
6. It doesn’t matter if you’re lazy, I’ll just work harder (there’s no such thing as a warm man)!
7. I love people like you who tell the truth and are aware of their own shortcomings. There is nothing wrong with being lazy. As long as you do your part well, you can be lazy in the rest.
8. I’m lazy too, but we’re in the same boatHit the target. And you are too lazy to change the person in your heart. You know what a lazy person is!
9. Lazy people have the blessing of laziness. I wonder if I have the blessing to take you, a blessed lazy person, home. Yeah!
10. Haha~ This is good, this is good, isn’t it said that a woman is blessed if she eats well and sleeps well? I really like you, a lucky star.
A girl will not shame herself in front of a boy for no reason. She wants to test the boy's attitude, similar to: I am so lazy, will you still like me? I am lazy, and you are still willing to be with me. Am I together? In fact, it is also a manifestation of girls’ inner insecurity. When girls say they are lazy, boys can refer to the above to respond correctly.
