Chatting for the first time is usually a very difficult thing between boys and girls. Because neither party knows what the other likes, and the other's hobbies, interests, personality and other aspects are all unknown. At this time, some basic chatting skills are needed to help each other understand more information. Below we will provide you with tips for girls and boys to chat for the first time. We hope it will be helpful to you.
Part 1: Say hello
When you meet for the first time, be friendly and enthusiastic. Here are the Here are some classic greetings:
Hello, my name is XXX, nice to meet you.
Hi, hello, I am XXX.
Hello, I am XXX, what is your name?
Hey, it’s really nice to meet you here. My name is XXX.
Hello, this is my first time on this occasion, is it yours too?
Hey, hello, I would like to meet you. My name is XXX.
Part 2: Chat topics
After saying hello, the next step is the formal chat session. At this time, you need to have some suitable topics to open up each other's conversation. Here are some words that can be used to guide the topic:
What do you think about this? How much do you know about the place?
This activity is very interesting. What is your favorite activity?
What do you usually like to do, what are your hobbies and interests?
As for restaurant food, what do you recommend?
What type of music do you like to listen to?
Have you seen the recent movie "XXX"?
How much do you know about the culture of this city?
Today is the first time we meet. Tell me more about you.
Part 3: In-depth topics
When the chat topic is dug deeper and deeper, you can easily switch to more in-depth topics Up, here are some words that can be used to further deepen the topic:
We just mentioned your hobbies, how do you like them? Are you interested?
We are talking about movies, which movie do you think is the best?
The art we just talked about, how do you think it affects your life?
The travel we just mentioned, where have you been?
What are you thinking about this matter we are discussing?
We are chatting more and more happily. Would you like to share more things with me?
Ending:
When ending a chat, you need to show politeness and gratitude. Here are some suitable ending words:
< ol class=" list-paddingleft-2">It was a pleasure chatting with you and I hope our next chat will be longer.
Thank you for sharing this information with me.
Hope we can meet again.
Thank you very much for your time, allowing me to get to know you better.
Nice to meet you today.
Once again I wish you a great evening.
In short, when chatting for the first time, use correct words and subtle expressions to convey your preferences and interests. Only in this way can we truly and effectively understand each other's hobbies, lifestyles and personality traits, thereby establishing a true friendship.