When most boys chat with girls, they don’t just want to chat because they are bored, but they want to get closer to each other. So how do you chat with girls to get closer?
How to chat with girls and get closer?
1. Take the initiative to lead
Girls are passive social creatures. Even if they like you, they will Basically they won't actively chase you. Therefore, no matter how you meet a girl, as a boy you need to provide guidance. In the early stage, you need to lead the conversation, lead the exchange of information, and lead the relationship development. Don't expect girls to take the initiative. Even if she shows indifference in the early stage, it doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't like you as a person. You need to try it before you know the final result.
In addition, as a boy, you should boldly lead the development of the relationship, constantly test the girl's acceptance of you, and dare to warm up and flirt with the girl. Only when you move forward will girls give you feedback. Otherwise, there is a high probability that you will fall into the friendship zone and end prematurely.
For example, you can start by changing her title, from baby to baby, dear. If a girl doesn't refuse, you can assume that she has accepted your advances. This goes back and forth, constantly heating up the relationship.
2. Interesting and attractive
When getting along with women, you must not be too serious. You are in love. , not talking about business. The occurrence of feelings requires flirting and ambiguous flirting in a relaxed and happy atmosphere. If you are too serious and too polite, it will make women feel that you are ignorant and like a pimple.
The interesting attraction here means that you should pay more attention to her emotions, use more push-pull techniques and emotional roller coasters, and constantly provide her with emotional experiences.
Girls: Not happy
Boys: I really want to go back to when you were a kid and I made you laugh when you cried
Girls: Haha, is that true?
< p> Boys: If you laugh, I will make you cry againGirls: You!
Boys: Haha, I can’t bear to stop making trouble
Boys: Your photo You’re so cute, I’ll give you a 9.
Girls: Thank you
Boys: 100 out of 100
Girls: You!!!
Boys: Mainly because I am afraid that you will be proud
3. Romantic and considerate
Many brothers have just met It’s actually wrong for girls to just please and show off their thoughtfulness. A woman has just met you, has not yet felt your attraction, and is not yet sure whether to call you. At this time, if you please her and care about her, you will look cheap..
The correct approach is to give her romantic and caring emotions after the first two steps have been taken. Her favorable impression of you will further increase.
Girls: I have a cold
Boys: Don’t take medicine for a cold
Girls: Why
Boys: I’ll feed you
Girls: Not happy
Boys: Come to me and tell you a story about a prince and a princess
Girls: Hahaha, okay
