When I first met a girl, we had a good conversation, and WeChat messages were mostly replied to instantly. But after a while, I found that when I sent a girl a WeChat message, she stopped replying. In this case, is the girl hinting at you to give up? ?
In fact, except for the situation where a girl doesn’t reply as soon as she joins WeChat, in most cases, if a girl doesn’t reply to WeChat, it doesn’t mean she has given up. After all, the conversation was very good at the beginning, which means that she cares about you. The first impression was not bad. After a period of time, she did not reply to WeChat for the following reasons:
1. Busy
Everyone is busy in life. You can open your chat history and carefully observe the time of your previous chats. She has not responded to your messages recently. When, and at what time.
You can first check the timing of the chat based on your understanding of her or asking your friends about the girl’s work situation. Generally speaking, everyone is busier during the day on weekdays. If the girl you like is someone who works very hard and is unwilling to fish, she will most likely not reply to your messages.
So at what time and how is it appropriate to send a message?
The first suggestion is during the lunch break on working days, or about half an hour after get off work, right, let’s divide the commuting time That’s included, try to avoid times when it’s not convenient for girls to reply to messages. Usually a girl has returned home about half an hour to an hour after get off work, or has arrived at another occasion. She is very likely to glance at her phone to avoid missing important messages.
In addition, within one or two hours after dinner, it is also a more suitable time to communicate. Usually around 7pm to 9pm. From a psychological point of view, people are more emotional at night. If you go to chat with her at this time, first of all, she will be able to reply to you in terms of time. Secondly, the content of your chat will also be some emotional topics. Easier to collide with feelings.
2. Chatting is too boring
Like "Are you there" is a very bad chat starter. Because it would give people the feeling that "you have something to ask her for help, but you don't tell me what it is", which made her feel very unsure.
Unless you have a particularly good relationship, the threshold for replying is relatively high for people with average relationships; and when the other party replies to you, there will be no obvious positive emotional feedback; and if you say this sentence If the girl doesn't see it in time, even if she wants to chat with you next time, once she sees that your last chat stopped at your "are you there", she will simply choose not to reply due to the guilt of not replying in time.
Here is a simple and easy-to-use "curiosity starter" to share with friends. Girls will basically reply when they see it, and they will do so out of curiosity.Reply to you. Even if she doesn't reply in time, she will treat this sentence as a word of concern and will not affect your next chat.
This sentence is to send to girls: "Go to work and don't play with your mobile phone."
Believe me, if a girl sees this message, she will definitely correct her mistakes. The next time it affects you, you will reply "Ah, I'm not playing with my phone", or "How do you know I'm playing with my phone?"
To sum up, when a girl does not reply to your messages, we should not be anxious first. She is most likely busy with something. If you want to effectively improve her response rate, you can make some optimizations in time and make some adjustments in the chat content. The most important thing is to master certain chat methods and be able to handle subsequent conversations.
