What should we say when we call a girl for the first time? This is a question that confuses many boys. In this article, I will provide you with some useful tips and tricks to help you communicate better with girls.
1. Say hello
When a girl answers the phone, the first thing she should do is say hello politely. You can express your greetings by simply saying "hello" or "hi".
2. Self-introduction
If you are new to each other, it may be a good idea to introduce yourself before calling. Tell her your name, occupation, age and other basic information so that she can have a preliminary understanding of you.
3. Greet her
After introducing yourself, you can greet the girl appropriately. For example, "How are you doing?", "How are you doing today?", etc. This can shorten the distance between each other and increase mutual favorability.
4. Chat about common topics
Finding common ground is key to keeping the conversation flowing. You can start from aspects such as hobbies, work and study, travel experience, etc. to find points of resonance with each other. But be careful not to just focus on your own topics, but give girls enough opportunities to speak.
5. Express your thoughts and feelings
During the chat, don’t just ask questions or listen to the girl talk. You should also express your thoughts and feelings appropriately so that girls can understand your inner world. But be careful not to make the topic too personal or sensitive, and avoid causing embarrassment or controversy.
6. End call
When the conversation is about to end, you can politely tell the girl "I have to go" or "Let's talk next time." At the same time, you can also ask her if she needs help with anything to show your care and enthusiasm.
Calling a girl for the first time can make many boys feel nervous and uneasy. But as long as you master the above skills, you can communicate with girls easily and happily. Remember to be polite, sincere, patient, and focus on communication and understanding between each other.