Many boys chat with girls and think they have a good chat, but in fact they are all useless chats, and they are even poisoning themselves. Today we are going to talk about 3 ways of chatting on WeChat that boys think are cool, but are actually easily blocked by girls.
How to chat on WeChat that is easily blocked by girls:
1. Questioning without emotion h3>
Nowadays, many boys no longer check their household registration, but they still like to ask some strange questions, such as: What is your dream?
You think it is very polite, but girls already hate it. To explode.
You think you have risen to the level of the soul, but in the eyes of girls, you are still flocking to her.
The girl might reply a few words out of politeness, but after a long time, she was tired.
Because this way of chatting cannot bring any emotional value to girls, and it will also make girls subconsciously feel that the person opposite is a very boring person.
Choosing who to fall in love with is actually choosing a lifestyle. No girl wants to live with a boy who looks boring.
In fact, chatting only involves checking household registration. It is nothing more than that you have no money in your stomach, and you are afraid that girls will ignore you if you say the wrong thing.
2. Reveal regardless of image
Whenever you meet a good-looking young lady, you can’t wait to see her He reveals everything about himself to girls, eager to win her favor. The euphemistic name is sincerity.
Then you automatically think that sincerity means being exposed and being able to say anything.
If you don’t have anything to talk about during the chat, then you can have fun with yourself and reveal all your embarrassing things, big and small, to others one by one.
You think this is sincerity, but in fact, in the eyes of girls, such boys are just trying to please without charm.
Then here is the solution:
The core reason for this phenomenon is that girls cannot feel a sense of mystery, so how can they have the desire to understand this boy?
So if you want a girl to have feelings for you, you must regain your sense of mystery.
Here are two tips:
The first one is to be appropriately alienated.
You don’t have to stare at your phone all the time and rush to reply in seconds. Go do your own things, such as playing ball. When a girl sees that you haven’t replied in seconds today, her mentality is: What happened to him today? He usually doesn’t reply in seconds. Will you reply?
After you finish your work, reply to her: I had something to do just now, and then directly put the photo of you playing basketball in the circle of friends.
When a girl sees your circle of friends, her little theater begins. Who is he playing ball with? Are there any other girls next to him?
The second one is high value exit.
For example, when a girl is chatting with you most passionately, you just say: "No more chatting, I'm going to attend a friend's concert later."
Attending a personal concert is your high value.
3. Words without frames
Everyone will like people who are better than themselves, right, so Girls will inevitably evaluate the value of boys.
For example, she will ask "Do you usually have many girls around you?".
A boy only needs to answer: "I usually play games after get off work, and there are not many girls around me!"
Girls may think that this boy has no social value, because how can he be around an attractive boy? Maybe there are no girls?
The correct answer should be: "There are some junior girls from the previous school, friends from the club, and current female colleagues, etc. They should be similar to you, right?".
After girls hear what you say, they will immediately understand that there are many girls around you.
When you show your own standards and framework, a girl’s brain will automatically compare. So do I meet his standards?
In this case, the framework will Twist, become her to cling to your frame.
