After adding girls to WeChat, if you want to successfully open up girls’ chat boxes, the choice of opening remarks is very important, and the opening remarks should be different for different situations. So after adding a girl on WeChat, what should I say in the opening remarks?
1. Girls introduced through friends, blind dates, etc.
Met in this way The relationship between men and women is actually a "slightly familiar stranger friend" relationship, that is, they understand some basic information about each other, but not too well.
Secondly, for men and women who meet in this way, most of the emotions contained by both parties are actually "sincerity", that is, they want to seriously find a suitable partner; there is another deep-seated problem, which is to understand , the reason why you were introduced by friends means that the girl may have faced many "boring" straight men before and has yet to find the right one; therefore, in her heart, she also hopes to meet someone who is "interesting" in chatting. man.
After understanding this, we successfully deduced the idea of ????the opening method. The idea is: "sincere" topics start interaction + "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere!
For example:
After just adding the girl on WeChat, we can use: "Nice to meet you, how should I call you?" ?" Such a sincere opening statement. With such an opening, most girls will tell you their name and are willing to get to know each other!
Then when the girl replies to us, we follow a sincere line of thought and tell the girl her name. The initial interaction is "information exchange", so that each can have a sense of familiarity.
Of course, it is not enough for us to just reply with our names at this time, because as mentioned just now, our ideas should also involve "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere!
So , after replying with our names, we need to add "You can also call me little brother~". Use this sentence to adjust the atmosphere of the chat and make it interesting.
Moreover, this is also a test to test how interested girls are in us!
If a girl replies "Haha, hello, little brother", it means that she has a good feeling for you. To pave the way for interest, as long as you keep the rhythm of the chat and control your own needs, you can continue the conversation well; of course, you may not scream. Not screaming does not mean that the girl is disgusted, it only shows that the girl is at that time. The interest is not high enough, so the next rhythm can focus on display and the attraction of chatting.
After this opening chat, our opening ideas have been completed.
2. Social APP, or chatting up girls who are added in this way
Men and women who meet in this way are actually "strangers" in terms of relationship positioning. Both parties do not know the information and have little interest.
Secondly, men and women who meet in this way have the attribute of "quick screening", that is, if they like each other, they will chat, and if they don't, they will be very cold.
After understanding this, the idea of ????our opening method is: "Interesting and attractive" is the first priority, not for anything else, just to make girls look at us for the first time, so as to have thoughts. The desire to continue chatting
For example:
For example, if a girl’s avatar is a pet, then we can start the topic and say: The cat in your avatar is so cute. I also had one before. Just, but what’s wrong now...
Use the strategies of telling stories, sharing, praising, and providing value to make girls feel good, make girls feel that you have something in common, or let girls subconsciously feel that You "have something to talk about" and you are a "valuable" man. Moreover, the avatar of each of us must be something we are interested in, so it is right to talk about it. Next, use common topics to arouse the resonance of girls. For example, a relatively common word is "shovel officer". Use this method to bring the distance between each other closer, and then slowly extend the topic, and continue chatting!</ p>
Then, you may ask, I met a girl through social media, but her avatar seems to have nothing to talk about. My circle of friends has also blocked me, and I don’t keep pets, so how can I open it? Chat?
At this time, you can go back to idea 1, use "sincere" topics to start interaction + "interesting" chats to mobilize the atmosphere. Use the same opening remarks, exchange information while teasing, and test girls This trick is actually universal. But if a girl doesn't want to tell you her name, there's no need to spend too much time talking, because she has no interest in you at all, and there will be no results in talking like this. < /p>
Why do some girls tell you their name, and why don’t some girls tell you? Excluding girls’ reserve, in fact You are not attractive enough, so girls are not interested in telling you. Another reason is that you are not her type. Some girls just want uncles and don’t like young men. Some girls only like young men and don’t like uncles. .
Therefore, there is a related point here, that is, your own attractiveness and a girl’s interest in chatting are actually closely related!
At the beginning, your own attractiveness The source is based on your circle of friends. If you are not attractive enough and the circle of friends is not rich enough, girls will basically not have any special reaction to your opening remarks. Maybe you said a very good one. opening remarks, but the girls just gave you a replySaying "hmm" gives you a feeling of despair.
Therefore, it is very important to improve one's own attractiveness. So what circle of friends is attractive and will make girls interested in chatting? I won't go into details here. An article a few days ago discussed this issue. There are more detailed teachings. Brothers who want to learn more about it can go back and read it later to build up their own attraction. Then it will be easier and more effective for you to chat with girls.
When chatting and interacting with a girl who has just been added on WeChat, we should first think of ways to make the girl interested in us, such as using: stories, humor, routines, palm reading, guidance, etc. to start the interaction. We use this method to express our personality and values, so that girls can have a certain interest in us and make girls think that we are an interesting man. First, we should guide her to invest in us and guide her interest indicators.
After that, we express our interest, such as praising girls, expressing approval, etc., so that girls feel that we are also interested in her.
