Many love novices don’t know how to deal with girls’ emotions at all. When girls are sad, angry, or troubled, they don’t know what to do, so they often ignore girls’ emotions in chats, thus wasting girls. expectations, causing the emotional distance between the two to grow further and further!
In fact, when a girl says "very annoying" to you, she is just preparing a topic for your next chat. However, many straight men understand the meaning of not chatting with girls. If they want to talk to girls as girlfriends, they need to learn the high EQ answers of warm men. These 4 words will help you win over her.
1. Comfort girls
Girls are emotional and boys are logical. When a girl says: Saying "I'm so annoyed" is usually to lead the boy to ask her why she is troubled, and then she will tell her own troubles, and then expect the boy to care and comfort her.
After understanding the girl’s thinking routine, the warm man usually starts to comfort the girl directly, using a warm tone and caring words to care for the girl’s mood, and then asks the girl why she is troubled by something, and then starts a conversation High-quality heart-to-heart conversations are one of Nuannan's chat techniques.
2. Leading Girls’ Emotions
The real masters of love are all practitioners who lead girls’ emotions. , calm down the girl's emotions as soon as she opens the mouth, tell the girl in mature and rational words that these are insignificant "very annoying", and can start a long discussion, so that the girl's thoughts will follow the boy's, completely forgetting Troubled things.
During this period, Nuan Nan also quoted a few humorous jokes or ambiguous jokes to adjust the serious atmosphere, and the entire chat scene became pleasant and humorous.
3. Emotional resonance
Boys with high emotional intelligence will find that all emotional resonance begins with mutual sympathy. Yes, if you want to resonate emotionally with a girl, you need to agree with her feelings and express that you have similar experiences. The similarity between you will determine the distance between the girl and you in a certain way.
Once an emotional girl hears this resonance, she will develop her endless complaints and chat with you for hours, ranging from "so annoying" to funny, wanting to cry, and sad. Waiting for various emotions, the longer a girl talks to you, the better chance your relationship will have?
4. Take the opportunity to date
When warm men say "so annoying" to girls, they usually think about how to solve the girl's troubled situation, so they use a diversionary method - taking the opportunity to date.
For example: Are you in a bad mood? Let’s go eat delicious food! If you’re so worried, let’s just go watch a movie. Did you see that the scene of a straight man’s car accident suddenly created an opportunity for the warm man to express himself? Maybe this is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence!
