In the eyes of many boys, when a girl says "we are not suitable", she is rejecting herself and feels that she has no chance at all. In fact, this is not the case. In addition to polite rejection, this sentence may be a test. If you reply appropriately, you still have a good chance. So how should you reply to a girl who says it is inappropriate to chase a girl?
1. The early stage of pursuit
At this stage, if you have not made it clear that you are pursuing her, such as confessing your love, sending flowers, telling her people around. So, when a girl says to you "We are not suitable", it is most likely a test.
If your emotional response is very intense, or you try your best to explain or explain that the relationship between you is appropriate. Then even if you fail the test, your score will be directly reduced in the minds of girls, and you may even be passed.
Because girls can think in reverse, an attractive boy with high emotional intelligence has a great choice in choosing a mate. They will not care too much about a girl who has not yet established a relationship, let alone be too aggressive. Go and convince the girl that you two are suitable. Because such a man understands that as long as a girl likes him emotionally (has feelings for him), the girl will naturally accept him. What a girl says is often duplicitous.
Like is actually a feeling, which is controlled by the emotional brain (limbic system of the brain), not the logical brain (cerebral cortex). It can be understood that whether you like someone is an instinctive reaction, not the result of brain thinking. You can make the other person like you emotionally, and the other person's logical brain will naturally rationalize the behavior of "liking me." It’s because we first feel like it, and then our logical brain rationalizes the reasons for liking it.
If your mood is flat and you don’t take the girl’s words seriously, you will pass the test. For example, you can reply to a girl: "Do you feel like I'm pursuing you?" or "You're so stupid, I don't want you." Such a reply, on the one hand, avoids having a conversation with the girl's logical brain, because you are trying to use logic to convince the girl that she likes you. It's impossible for you. On the other hand, it directly conveys emotional experience to girls and indirectly stimulates girls' emotional brains to feel for you.
2. Pursuit of the mid-term
Girls are animals that rely very much on emotions, and emotions have a huge influence on her. . For example, various sensational dramas have a significantly greater impact on women than on men.
Women at this stage have a very strange psychology. The more you try to win her back, the less valuable she will think you are and the more she will avoid you. On the contrary, the more you push her away, the more she will Do you doubt yourself, am I not attractive enough? It turns out that I am not that good, so she will want to prove herself and will lift your defense mechanism for you. You only need to seize the opportunity later.
So don’t force yourself to explain, to beg girls to affirm themselves, you must remember that it is impossible for a girl to like a boy she despises. If you want to use flattery to chase her, it doesn't exist. The correct approach is to take a step back, relax for a while, and then attract her again.
So, you can reply to her like this: "I feel the same way, how about we be friends." Or "We are friends, where did you go?"
< p style="text-align: center;">3. Ambiguous stage
After a girl is in the ambiguous stage with you, she also gives you opportunities in the middle but you don’t seize them. There are only two reasons for you to say this:
She has someone she likes recently.
She wanted to see it again.
No matter what the reason is, we can’t undo it. We just let nature take its course and maintain the value. You have to firmly believe that no matter who she looks for in the future, she will compare you with you. As long as there is no suitable one, she will come back to you in the end. We just need to be patient and wait.
So, you only need to simply reply to her: "Reply like this: Okay, I understand."
