If you want to know a girl’s age, you must not ask directly, because asking directly will not only make you appear to have low emotional intelligence, but also easily expose your sense of need. And due to the prevalence of cosmetics and beauty, it is difficult to tell a girl's age just from photos. So how to show a girl’s age with high emotional intelligence?
1. Learn about it tactfully from school
Everyone is from campus, and many girls still miss campus life, so in chatting, discussing the topic of school is more resonant. At the same time, you can also tactfully elicit it by asking when she graduated. her age. For example:
Male: I just got together with my classmates today. I really miss my school days. I feel like it’s better to go to school!
Female: Yes, I want to work when I go to school. Work Then I wanted to go back to school.
Male: Well, everyone is like this. Time flies so fast. A few years have passed in a flash. It has been XX years since I graduated.
Female: Yeah, yeah, I’m getting old.
Male: How about you, young lady? How long have you graduated? Did you graduate in 2012?
Female: In 12 years, you graduated with a bachelor’s degree.
In this way, not only can you ask the girl’s age tactfully, but it can also resonate between the two of you from campus life. In the end, you only need to ask some relevant questions to find out. How old is she now?
2. Understanding through work tactfully
Talking about work is the same as talking about school. Start with the common points between you and ask her her age tactfully. As for work, it is something you all have to do after graduation. For example:
Male: I’m so tired today. I worked overtime again and I just got home now.
Female: I’ve already eaten. I didn’t expect you to work so hard.
Male: Well, I have just worked for two years, and I still feel that my experience is not very rich, so I spend more time studying in the company.
Female: You must be working too hard. I started to be lazy after just one year of work.
This kind of chat not only reveals that you are working hard, but also makes the girl willing to continue chatting with you. At the same time, you can roughly judge the girl's age from her working hours. And based on the topic of work, you can extend the conversation and continue the conversation. You can ask her where she works? What is her occupation? But one thing you must remember is not to ask too many questions, because if there are too many, girls will find it very annoying. , just like checking the household registration.
3. Understand the zodiac signs tactfully
The topic of zodiac signs is basically something that every girl will talk about to some extent. Therefore, you can start with the zodiac sign and then move to the zodiac sign, and use the zodiac signs to tactfully ask the girl's age.
Male: Do you believe in the horoscope?
Female: I quite believe it.
Male: Actually, I believe more in the Chinese zodiac. Do you believe in the zodiac signs? What do you belong to?
(Don’t say anything after asking: Ah, you Older or younger than me. Don’t reveal the secret, just say her zodiac sign, her personality, etc.) In short, you can deduce the age based on her zodiac sign.
Actually, there are many ways to ask a girl’s age, but one thing must be remembered: it must be tactful, and never just ask: How old are you?
You know, for girls, age is a private matter after all. Girls are sometimes unwilling to disclose their privacy, and you are not here for a blind date. Just try to find out in other ways. If you are too serious about asking about your age, it will only make the girl think that you are a straight man and put you on her blacklist. Therefore, when boys and girls get along, don’t worry too much about age. As long as you like her, you can pursue her. After all, we are already in the 21st century, and age is no longer an issue when it comes to relationships between men and women.
