In the process of dating a girl, have you ever encountered such a situation: It was the girl who took the initiative to flirt with you before, and you responded enthusiastically to her, but for some unknown reason, recently you took the initiative to chat with the girl. They all seem relatively cold, and sometimes it can be clearly seen that she is perfunctory towards you. So why do girls become so cold after flirting with me? What should you do if you encounter this situation?
1. The psychology of girls being cold after flirting with me
1. You don’t know how to chat
Maybe girls have a crush on you at first, so She will take the initiative to flirt with you, but after contacting her, she will find that you are very different from what she imagined, and you can't chat, which will cause the girl's good impression of you to slowly fade away. At this time, the girl will of course become interested in you. If you become cold, she will change her heart towards you, not just her words.
2. Girls are flirting with others
Some girls are like Neptune. She takes the initiative to flirt with you at the beginning. Because he thinks your conditions are pretty good, he flirts with you and hangs you. But she suddenly started flirting with another person who has better conditions than you and is better at chatting, so she has no time to chat with you, which will make you feel that she is cold to you, because she has no time to care about you at all. !
3. You made a girl angry
If a girl who you had a good chat with before suddenly ignores you, it probably means that you have made a serious mistake and made the girl angry. A girl is angry. Being cold to you is just a way of punishing you. I hope you can remember the lesson and don't make her angry again next time.
4. Girls are tired of you
If the way you chat with girls remains the same, over time, the household registration is checked clearly, and the explanation is almost completed, the girls will not mention you. Once he becomes interested, he will naturally become indifferent to you. This is actually a very natural phenomenon. The previous initiative was because of freshness and curiosity, and the subsequent indifference was because these things were gone.
2. What should I do if a girl takes the initiative to flirt with me and then becomes cold?
Many boys feel that since girls take the initiative to flirt with me, If I am, then I must seize the opportunity. I feel that it is a sure thing that a girl will become my girlfriend, so I will be extremely attentive and caring to the girl. I will ask "What are you doing?", "What are you busy with?", " Have you eaten?”, “It’s getting colder today, remember to put on some clothes”, “It’s raining, remember to bring an umbrella”... You think doing this will impress girls, but in fact girls are already very annoyed by you.
No matter whether the girl takes the initiative to flirt with you or not, as long as you have not confirmed the relationship, as long as you and the girl have not had close contact, you cannot do anything that goes beyond your relationship, and if you do so, it will make you appear valuable. If she is low, she has to do it, but it is easy for girls to hang her around.
Therefore, once you find that a girl has started to become indifferent to you, the correct approach is to temporarily put your eyes aside from her, look at the world around you, and discover something meaningful. When a girl discovers your shining point again, she will naturally take the initiative to tease you.
