A girl suddenly tells you that she wants to introduce her best friend to you. If you have no feelings for her, of course you can answer casually, but if you also like her, you need to be careful, because your reply at this time is basically It determines the direction of your relationship with this girl. So how should we reply to gain extra points in her mind?
First of all, we still need to figure out what the subtext means when a girl introduces her best friend to you, and then make a decision Targeted reply.
1. Reject you tactfully
Girls generally have higher emotional intelligence than boys. She can be keenly aware of her good feelings, but since you are not her type, your charm value cannot attract her. If she refuses directly, she is afraid of hurting your self-esteem and losing your face, so she uses such a tactful way to express her rejection to your best friend. Use as a shield to divert your attention. At this time, you can reply like this:
Female: "I have many beautiful girlfriends around me, let me introduce you to one."
Male: "Okay, but one is not enough for 10." , so that I can build a harem."
Such a humorous reply not only changes the topic, but also resolves the awkward atmosphere at the scene.
2. Test your attitude
Girls are a kind of insincere animals. Because they are reserved, they will not take the initiative to say that they like someone. Instead, they will find ways to test your feelings for her. If you don't clearly express your favorability to her, she may find an excuse to test your attitude, such as "How about introducing my best friend to you as your girlfriend."
If you answer readily: "Okay, send me your best friend's photos", then the goodwill you have established in her heart will be gone in an instant, and she will naturally give up later. Be emotionally invested in you.
So, you can reply like this:
Female: "What do you think of my bestie? Let me introduce her to you."
Male: "So Why bother, it’s all you?”
Female: “Why?”
Male: “If I can marry a wife like you, I won’t have to worry about my son’s marriage in the future.”
When you are in the ambiguous stage, then there is no need to beat around the bush, just use this reply to satisfy her vanity.
3. Hint that you confess to her
If you are in an ambiguous stage with the girl you like, She is insecure and worried that you are just playing with her, and she wants to introduce her best friend to you in order to retreat. In this way, she hints at confessing to her, and wants you to prove that you are very important in her mind.
If you tell a girl without thinking: "I only like you",Maybe you and the girl will gain sweet love, but she will firmly take the initiative in the relationship; another possibility is that the girl refuses your confession out of reserve, which is equivalent to digging a hole for herself. fetal.
Faced with such hints from girls, we need to reply like this:
Female: "Let me introduce my best friend to you"
Male: "Let's talk yesterday We just agreed to be private for life, and today you will introduce me to your best friend. What are you so worried about?"
Use your imagination to reply to a girl. A girl will not be able to figure out your thoughts about her, but it will also increase the number of conversations. After all, men who are humorous and can chat are the sexiest.
4. She simply wants to pair you up with her best friend
Not all girls are interested in this Be careful, maybe the girl you like is the type of tomboy, and she won’t even notice that you have a crush on her, and will completely treat you as a good buddy and best friend, then she will naturally bring up the matter of your divorce. Schedule, she simply wants to bring you and her best friend together. You can reply like this:
Female: "My best friend happens to be single. How about introducing her to you?"
Male: "I like girls from Mars. You have such a best friend by your side." ?”
This way, the chat can be naturally transferred to other topics.
