When you have just added a girl to WeChat, the first sentence at the beginning is very critical. Nowadays, girls on social software are not short of suitors. They will receive greetings from various boys every day. If you start with these boys Likewise, it will be difficult to get the other person to show interest in chatting with you. If you just added a girl to WeChat, how can she reply in the first place?
1. Seize the girl’s needs
In life, people will inevitably be under pressure, and they will feel lost and sad under pressure. The same is true for girls. They easily lack a sense of security. At this time, you can seize this point to say hello to girls, such as:
"From your photos, it looks like you are very insecure"
"Your circle of friends are full of articles about love. Do you want sweet love?"
This type of greeting is a heart-attack type that captures a girl’s needs. You understand a girl’s fragility and you understand a girl. This way of greeting also expresses your goodwill to her and shows that you understand her while giving her something to think about. Needs (care, security).
2. Stimulate girls’ emotions
A good opening is never a mindless compliment, and girls don’t. If you don’t know that you are beautiful, your compliments are just flattering the girl, which will only lift her higher and farther away from you. This is a wrong approach. The correct approach is to stimulate the girl's emotions and get closer to her. Therefore, your first sentence of greeting can be like this:
"Looking at you, I know that you can only eat but not eat." Cooking"
"Looking at the photos in your circle of friends, you must not be able to do housework at home."
This type of opening has a certain provocation in it, regardless of Whether a girl is like you said, she will refute you through your request. As long as the girl is willing to reply to you, then she should seize the opportunity.
3. Chance encounters under the blessing of fate
I don’t think any girl doesn’t like watching Korean dramas, and the biggest thing in Korean dramas is fate and chance encounters. Use the opening remarks to create a kind of encounter around the corner. The feeling of love allows two strangers to meet and makes her feel that this is arranged by God. Therefore, your first sentence of greeting can be like this:
"In the vast sea of ??people, suddenly looking back, You just came to the top of my WeChat account”
“Don’t say anything yet, let me thank the God of Luck for letting me finally meet you”
This type of opening actually has a certain The nature of gambling is in it. If a girl is in a romantic window, then there is a window for her to continue developing.
4. Start with the girl’s nickname
StillBefore we understand the basic information of the girl, we know very little about the girl. At this time, we can start by using the girl’s online nickname and personalized signature, such as:
1) The girl’s name has an expression. , then you can say this: I heard that girls with expressions in their nicknames are very cute. Did you grow up eating cuteness?
2) If a girl’s name has English in it, then You can say something like this: I think your nickname must be very meaningful, (check the Chinese and English meanings of girls’ online names in advance)
3) Girls’ names are relatively short, then you can say something like this: You Why does your nickname only have these few words? Are all beautiful girls so cool?
4) Girls’ names are longer and their signatures are also very artistic, then you can say this: your nickname It’s so poetic. Did you come up with it yourself?
Such an opening will make girls feel different and original. Not only will they not think you are boring, but they will think you are interesting and humorous. People will naturally become interested in you and are more willing to chat with you.
5. Use time to start the conversation
Many boys always like to use the weather time to start the conversation. For example:
"The weather is really nice today, good morning"
"It's already noon before you know it. Have you eaten?"
This kind of opening is really cliche and will make girls think you are long-winded and boring. The real way is:
"The early worm gets caught. Are you a worm or a bird?"
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"Getting up early ruins the day, getting up late ruins the morning"
This way of greeting is relatively safe, and most girls will be interested in continuing to chat with you. And if you say some empathetic words based on the time, it will be easier to gain recognition from girls and make them more willing to chat with you.
